VOLUNTEER WORK SHOULD BE FOR FREE!

•August 9, 2009 • 4 Comments

Do not pay an organization a fee for your volunteer work. I repeat, do not pay any money to volunteer!

Many organizations actually get away with this and are very successful at charging people to volunteer. This concept is very confusing. Many volunteers who have paid their fees are further confused when they learn others doing the same volunteer activities did not pay anyone. How does that work, and why do people keep on paying these organizations?

Some of these organizations are established, have connections with non-profit programs, and established places to stay. But do they have to up the price on everything? Having a connection at a volunteer location, language school and house to live in does not justify charging large fees. All of this information is available for free and very easy to find. It is just not good karma to charge extra money to someone who wants to do something positive.

To give these “paid for” volunteer organizations a break, they will make Mom and Dad feel a bit better. Also if you decide to volunteer for the summer a week or two before you need to leave, then this type of a organization may be able to help you out. But be smart about choosing one. Go with an organization that has a good and believable ethics statement, and a track record and that gives a certain amount of your fee to the organization where you will volunteer. Make sure to ask for a list of exactly what your fees are being used for. Also recommended is to ask the Director of the program where you chose to volunteer if they actually receive the money indicated by the volunteer organization after you have started to volunteer. If they do not receive funds, you should report the inconsistency. Somebody needs to keep them accountable, and if you don’t who will?

Now this is important, so pay attention! Volunteering can all be done on your own with no fees or extra donations. It is done all over the world by people like you and I every day. The experience will be much more rewarding, especially regarding costs!

My advice to everyone who wants to volunteer abroad is to do some research first. There are 1000’s of programs on the internet in which you can make your own volunteer arrangements and some even have a free place for you to live with meals as well! Of course, normally you will have to pay for your own travel, housing, meals and any extra expenses, but you should not be paying anything on top of those items (no costs for local management teams, no admin costs, no nothing). Some people have money to give, some people have time to give…many do not have both and even if you did have extra money to burn wouldn’t you rather spend it on the organization where you are volunteering.

Now regarding places to stay; a home-stay is supposed to be cheap. If your room and board at a home-stay is more than $80.00 a week in a developing country, then you may be getting rooked (personally I think 80.00 is high, but when you look at it as $11 a day for room and food it seems really cheap). You will get what you pay for or less. Meals in a home-stay will typically be consistent with what the local people eat, which is not expensive food. The experience is typically very rewarding so keep in mind you are not doing it for the gourmet meals and luxury accommodations. And understand the middle men, also known as “local contact” to the “paid for” volunteer organizations need to get some money in their pockets….but be careful! The more middle men there are, the more money out of your pocket.

First and foremost, here are my requirements for volunteer workers:

1) Know a basic level of the language. You will not have a translator following your around so be comfortable to at least trying to speak the language.

2) Try to volunteer for at least a month…more than a month is best. Some programs will not take volunteers for less than 2, 4 or even 6 months. I work with kids now, and see so many people come and go in the boy’s lives so quickly. Sometimes I can see the kids pushing me away because they know I too will be leaving, and I am here for a year! They need people that have the time to give, not someone that just wants to do a little volunteer work here and there. With that said, even children’s programs take just weekly volunteers sometimes. But you better make that week worthwhile. Mission groups are great for their packed-full- weeks of work; building homes, adding on to orphanages, activities with the kids, and so on! People with medical, therapy, computer or other skills are usually needed badly and most programs will take them for even a few hours!

3) Find out what is expected of you and then bring supplies for your work and have activity ideas and plans if needed. I have to tell you it drives me crazy when volunteers show up and then do nothing but hang out with the kids, or worse, just talk to each other. The children do not need to just sit around more, they do enough of that! They need new experiences and skills, and they are hungry to learn!

4) Girls (and sometimes boys too) you need to dress appropriately, shorts and skirts (I do not recommend skirts when working with kids at all, I have learned this the hard way) at knee length or just above the knee and no cleavage. I know it is hot sometimes, but come on!

5) Do not bring items of value with you to your place of volunteer work or even to the country you will be working in. I mean that $3,000 ring that someone special gave you can stay at home. You could bring some expensive items, of course you want your camera and probably your ipod, but be prepared to lose them as well, these things happen. I am not saying you will be robbed for sure, I am just saying if you bring things of value, be very careful and do not be surprised if they get stolen. Most places have a computer for you to use if needed, or the community you live in may have internet cafes. If you bring your own, ask about the availability of wifi connections! Many are not advertised and they are more plentiful every day.

Now with all that said, here are my steps to find a volunteer program and place to stay on your own:

1) Pick the type of volunteer work you want first (with children, in nature, community work and so on).

2) Pick a place in the world you want to work (developing countries will be the most affordable and need your help the most).

3) Do internet research with your exact needs (i.e. volunteer with children in Guatemala). If you need a volunteer program that offers room and board, be specific in your searches. Look at all links. Consider also searching for other organizations and companies that would obviously cater to volunteers for other activities such as language schools, tour operators, etc. These organizations typically have good web sites, speak multiple languages, and can frequently lead you to many volunteer opportunities. Some links might lead you to one of those paid places…but check them out too. You may get a name of a place you like through their website or they may have other factors for you to consider. Then look the place up on the internet on your own. If you can not find the place you read about on the internet, and if you are very adventurous like me, you can go to the place you want on your own, and just show up to volunteer. Most non-profit organizations in developing countries will not turn down a volunteer. If this is too scary for you and you could not find a place, email/call up one of those “paid for” organizations and find out about their volunteer opportunities. Tell them you need to research a place before you will volunteer for them. Voila…you’ve got yourself some names!

4) Once you find a few programs and I suggest finding at least 5 for further research. Find an email address for them, and email them. Make a list of questions (see my example questions below) for them. If they do not answer back right away, do not be offended, many countries work on a different pace than many of us from the USA, but be sure to email them again. Also, I would use a translate program too, to send the email in English and in the language of the country you are interested in. I would try emailing / calling at least 3 times before you give up.

5) If you cannot find a program this way, try this…look into language schools in the area. By this, I mean a school that will teach you the local language. Many of the schools have connections with volunteer programs for their students.

6) Language schools also typically have connections with home-stays. You may not go to the language school, but they may still set you up with a home-stay and volunteer work. Basically, if you find your own program to volunteer with and need a place to stay, going through language schools for a home-stay is the best way. If not, ask the place where you will be volunteering for suggestions on places to stay. You may have to get a hotel / hostel at first. Other volunteers at the location you choose may have suggestions as well, or they may even need a roommate. Also when looking for a place to stay make sure it is in a safe area (ask people at the location where you are volunteering) and look for a place that is also not too far from where you will volunteer (but be ready to walk 45 minutes to get there as well). Although you may live on your own, you may be able to eat at the organization where you are volunteering… especially if it is some kind of children’s program.

7) One more way to find programs to volunteer with is to search on the internet for expats (Expatriates are people living outside their country or origin) blogging about life in the country you are interested in (uh, like me). They may talk about a program they work with or they probably know a lot about programs in their area. Most bloggers are very helpful so feel free to ask questions in the comment area.

List of questions to ask a program where you want to volunteer:
1) What do they need volunteers to do at their organization?
2) What are the hours they need volunteers for during the day and for the week?
3) What is the minimum and maximum allowed volunteer stay?
4) What kind of supplies can you bring with you to help with your volunteer work?
5) Do they supply any meals and a place to live?
6) If they do not offer a place to live, do they have affordable options where you can get a room?
7) If they do offer a place to live, what kind of supplies do you need for your living space?
8) Ask for a detail description of the program, if you have not gotten one yet.
9) Ask about a dress code, so you can bring appropriate clothes.
10) Ask for a list of their rules and regulations so you can get familiar with them beforehand.

I hope this has helped some potential volunteers and did not scare any away! Please feel free to leave any questions for me in the comment area. I have a list of some volunteer programs in Guatemala, Nicaragua and Honduras as well. Good luck and go have the experience of a lifetime!
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HEATHER AND SORA’S VISIT!

•August 8, 2009 • Leave a Comment

The pictures speak for themselves, but here is more info….

Picked Heather up at the ferry terminal and they both were out front waiting for us….with suitcases and all! She said all their travel went really smooth! Hip Hip Hurrah! Since we had our landlord’s truck we did a drive around town and then headed to our pad to hang. After awhile we decided to go have a sunset drink at Le Pacha, the new bar extravaganza in town right on the beach. Afterwards, Jim made us some curry shrimp and rice for dinner.

We headed out late the next day for Jungle River Lodge. Their “natural” pool was empty for a much needed cleaning, but we found a new swim spot in the river below. We swam to cool down, but also looked for rocks and tried to stay out of the current. Then we had bean soup for lunch, played in the empty pool on the rocks and then did some bouldering to get to another swim spot, where we swam across the river to hang out and throw rocks.

It started to rain right before we were leaving and it turned into a right perfect huge storm. Jim had to drive on a dirt rocky road that led into a huge flood at the bottom. We watch a guy on a motorcycle get off his bike and walk it through the flooding as well as a taxi muddle through with water higher than the bottom of his doors. We wait for a bit to see other lower trucks attempt it and saw that we will be fine. We got home to find out that 4 trees with in one block from our apartment (in 4 different directions) fell in the storm, closing off streets everywhere. Now Heather and Sora have experienced a real good Honduran rain storm, but they are from Texas I think they have seen a few good ones in their day too!

That night we go to Expatriados for dinner, our hangout. Sora enjoyed the popcorn appetizer! After that and hanging around playing in the apartment we all are pooped and go to bed. And we have an early start the next day for the Cuero y Salado Refuge trip! We waked up like 5:30am and get out the door at a decent time, but get lost and then have to wait around an hour for the Trencita, so we end up at the Refuge a bit later than we had planned. We do a 2 hour canoe ride down 2 rivers and into small mangrove canals…creepy and cool all at the same time. Unfortunately, we did not see a lot of animals, but we did see some. A baby croc, birds, some bats and a lizard! And we heard lots of Howler monkeys too, but they were well hidden.

After that hot trip and a papusa lunch, a trip to our favorite in town swimming hole was needed. Once again we crashed The Quinta Real Hotel pool deck, business has been so slow lately they do not mind anymore! We played in the pool for a long time and then Sora made some friends, Samantita and her little Brother, Alex. They were so cute, speaking English with a heavy accent and using a lot of Spanish words! I think they were actually from Miami! Dinner at Chef Guity that night for some Garifuna Seafood…and more Salva Vidas.

Our last day in La Ceiba, we checked out the Dole Swinford Train park…a nice little park with old trains in the middle of down town. We also went shopping for some food to bring to Roatan with us, and then we went to the pool again! For dinner we walked to Playa Tatty’s for some of the best coconut shrimp I have ever had. I do not like to eat deep fried shrimp too much, but the batter was so thin with large strips of coconut in it…awesome!

Heather & Sora’s Visit -1

Roatan here we come! The boat ride to Roatan was seasick free and fast! We got settled into our nice large room and then hit the beach! No, we first had lunch at Cave Pizza and wraps. That night we met up with Audrey, who is there for a couple of months from La Ceiba getting her Dive Masters certificate,for some sunset beers. We all go out to a French Vietnamese place for dinner and it is good! Jim and I do not try restaurants with international food much in La Ceiba because we found them to be bad. We hang out just chatting and then we all head off to our rooms.

The next day we head to a place for lunch that also has a pool, but after swimming a bit we were told that it is closed that day! So we headed out in search for another lunch spot with a pool. Sora likes pools better than the very calm Caribbean Sea. We hiked down the beach, a very natural unspoiled part of beach, to Blue Bahia. A great resort with great food and a very nice pool. Jim and Heather had really good pulled pork..and I had a shrimp sandwich. Then Sora and I went for a nice swim. After our time at the Blue Bahia we walked to where we took the boat for the Dolphin Experience. Sora and Heather sign up and Jim and I are just observers. It was pretty cool and at a wonderful resort. After some sunset beach time, we had chicken at our favorite chicken joint in West End for dinner, and then have a cocktail back at the room.

Sora and Heather’s last full day on Roatan went like this, breakfast in the room, beach time, lunch in the room and then off to the Gumbalimbo Park for the afternoon. Where they had birds and monkeys climb on them and did some swimming in their pool. Jim and I just hung out and had some Middle Eastern food for lunch. Vietnamese and Middle Eastern food…oh my! It is really great to have options! That night I met up with Audrey for drinks at sunset with her diving friends, Heather and Sora decided to have an early dinner on their own. Jim and I just eat there at the Sundowner and were home in bed by 10pm.

The next morning Sora and Heather got some beach and Kayaking time in before having to take a taxi at 11am for the plane. Yes, Sora has started to kayak. Kayaking is something Heather and Dusty like to do, so it is really great Sora is picking it up too. That is not the only first Sora had on this trip, she taught herself to whistle and she had never had a monkey on her head before too! Tears welled up as they drove off the sand road. It was really nice seeing an old friend.

Heather & Sora’s Visit – 2

Thanks so much for visiting us Heather and Sora and bringing stuff for the boys…and for us too! We have already started to eat some of the tons of trail mix you brought! And the boys at the orphanage loved making wallets out of the felt and thread you brought! Thanks sooooo much! We love you and miss you two!

Now for a bit more, Jim and I stayed on a couple more days with our La Ceiba friends, Audrey and Jerome. They had rented a 2 bedroom condo for the week, so we got to crash there for a couple of nights. Thanks guys! Jim and I did a great dive together. Although I had a hard time with my buoyancy, the coral wall was wonderful. Although I did not see a sea turtle, I saw one the day before while I snorkeled right from the beach in West End! Jim made mojitos every night for happy hour and then we went off to eat, the first night at the Condo we all went to some restaurant on the water. It was okay, but did not smell okay. The next day Jim, Jerome and I went snorkeling in West End again, had lunch together and then met up with Audrey for a dive later. Jim was not feeling good, so he bailed out, and my chest was congested so I just snorkeled more. Jerome’s family was visiting from France, so we all went to the French Vietnamese place for dinner again! Not even drunk, Jim, Audrey and I got up and sang “Walk like an Egyptian” on Karaoke.  Next time, if there is a next time, we will be prepared!

The Rest of Our Time on Roatan

Jim and I were off the next day early back to La Ceiba…it was a great 5.5 days on Roatan and I have a great tan to prove it!  But with that said and done, I came back sick and did not get out of bed the whole day and stayed close to the bed the next day.  I still have a bit of a flu right now, but am feeling tons better.  It is hard to tell when we have a fever here because it is hot all the time!
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PART II: THINGS WE WILL NEVER TIRE OF…

•July 16, 2009 • 3 Comments

…WHILE LIVING IN CENTRAL AMERICA!

Part II of II


13) Nature and Animal Life

We are always amazed by the plants, flowers, birds, geckos, trees, monkeys, turtles, and even bugs and weeds here! And how about volcanoes, lakes and rivers too! Ai Ai Ai…it is so beautiful and abundant with life.

Flora Y Fauna

14) The Freedom of Kids:
When most kids are done with their schooling and chores, they are free, free, free! Mind you, they are usually not too far from home or another family member, but they do not have a parent nagging, “Get out of the street, stop kicking the ball, be careful, don’t do that, watch out,” and so on all the time! They play soccer in the street whether it is busy or not, they climb way up high to get a mango, they jump from rocks into 3 feet of river water and they have fun doing it all. It seems to be that there is less worry of injury here. If they do get hurt, maybe they will learn from their mistake, or it was as God wills. I love this philosophy, although Jim and I often cringe when we see something that would be considered dangerous in the states. It just gives the parents less to stress about as well!

15) Cows in the Road:
I love it when cows are in the road slowing down or backing up traffic. I even strain my neck in the bus to get a glimpse of said rogue cows! Yes, some of them are rogue, like they are on their way to California or something, but others are just being herded to another pasture by way of a highway. My favorite thing about the cow in the road phenomenon is the poor soul in the back that is waving a little rag to warn the traffic. What I want to know is who is there to warn the traffic about the poor guy up ahead waving the red rag?

Cows in the Road

16) Not Just the Children, But That the Children are So Well Behaved:
Once when I mentioned to our neighbor that children in Honduras are well behaved, he responded with, “Because we can hit them here!” The odd thing about him saying that, is I do not think he ever lays a hand on his kids. I have been on hot, sweaty 7 hour bus rides with kids and have barely heard a peep out of them. Kids walk near their parent without asking for a lot in stores. They do their chores usually without complaint, they finish their homework right away, and get this, they actually want to learn as well! Some of them actually complain about so many school cancellations because the teachers are always on strike or not being paid so they don’t show up. We need to bottle some of what they have and bring it back to the states.  I know a lot of adults who would pay out their nose for some of it!

17) Meeting Great People:
We meet so many great people down here, whether they are people who volunteer, people who run non-profit programs, people who fund programs, locals, travelers, expats, taxi drivers,  and tour guides. Most all have been great, interesting and very fun people. We are so lucky to be able to meet so many awesome people who we hope to keep in touch with over the years, whether here, there or somewhere else!

18) Honduran Body/Hand Language:
Just look at the below video, it should explain it all!

19) Licuados and Fruit:
The fruit, yes, we love the fruit. And there is nothing better than blending fresh fruit into something cold and yummy to drink! There are so many kinds of fruit here, many we have not seen or heard of before, like did you know there is a fruit (maranon) that is attached to the bottom of a cashew nut? Besides the typical tropical fruit like pineapple, lychee, mango, and papaya, we have also tried mangosteen, mora de castillo, maracuya and sepote just to name a few.

Fruit & Licuados

20) Air Conditioning:
Do I need to explain this…as I sit here sweating, typing this damn post!

21) Open Air Markets:

We love them all, whether for fruit, veggies, crafts, arts, or cheap Chinese plastic crap. It is such a way of life here, many people do not ever go to a department store. Why go inside and pay more for panties, bras, shampoo, or shoes? And what can be better than meat hanging on a hook all day long?

Markets

22) Negotiating:
And speaking of outdoor markets, you can’t have one without the other, the other being negotiating. We love to negotiate although less and less people in market places want to negotiate anymore. I will not pay more for something in Central America that I can get cheaper in a small shop on Haight Street in San Francisco for crying out loud! The regulars know us know in our fruit and veggie market, but we had to negotiate at first so we did not get charged the Gringo price every time. Mangos for 10 cents anyone? How about a freshly cut ripe pineapple for 50 cents?

23) The Mayhem:
At times there seems to be a controlled mayhem, like in the market place. Each stand is neatly kept with very organized and clean items, but then you try to walk through the market place and it is like a game of frogger or bumper cars. You have to dodge taxis, cars way too big for the tight streets, bicycles, delivery trucks, vendors with wooden carts, people, stray dogs, open manholes, broken sidewalks and piles of garbage. We serpentine through it all in one quick hot pass, but back in the day, we would have to wait until a car went by or for some shoppers to get into their taxi.  But now that we are used to the mayhem, watch out old lady, man in a homemade wheel chair and you too, sick dog, we are coming through!

Mayhem

24) Our great neighbors and landlord, La Familia Cole….for too many reasons to list!

The Coles

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THINGS WE WILL NEVER TIRE OF…

•July 12, 2009 • 1 Comment

…While Living in Central America

PART I OF II

1) Women carrying large baskets or bowls on their heads:
Women (and even sometimes men) carry mostly food on their head in baskets or bowls…but I am sure they use their talent for other items as well, at least I hope. I would love to see some kind of Cirque du Soleil act stemming from the head carrying women of Cenrtal America!

From Pictures we like!

2) Riding the local buses (or rapidos):
Although sometimes way too hot, crowded and long, you can always find something to laugh at; the music blaring out of the speakers, the cute kid in front of you, the butt of the person crammed into the aisle that is in your face, and so on.

3) Cheap or free entertainment on the buses:

This is another reason why we will not tire of riding the public buses, the people that come on asking for money. Some play a song on an instrument, or sing, or tell of their woes. And some try to sell you something you really do not want. But even in this poor part of the world, everybody seems to buy from the one legged man, or give to the blind musician, or hand over some Lempiras to the old crippled accordion player, so you do as well. Of course everyone does not need candy in the shape of hamburgers, but it is nice to help those in need and believe it or not, most all give here, well, at least on the buses! And it is all worth it for entertainment purposes alone! And think how happy people would be on a bus in SF if some handicapped person started banging rhythmically on congas while on the way to work…to us that is worth an extra 50 cents mas o menus!

Buses C.A.

4) The Children:
What can I say, I am biased…I love them everywhere…but we live here now and they are always on our mind . For one thing, kids here seem to learn faster than American children, oh I am not talking about math or language skills, I am talking about common sense things! A small American child will run in the street every chance he or she gets. We see toddlers walking with their mother on the side of the highway here, not holding hands mind you, and that kid does not even stumble near the road! They know…if they go in the road…they will die. There is something to say for the “street” smartness of a 3 year old!

Kids of Central America!

5) Crazy Driving:
Although death defying and more dangerous than skate boarding with Johnny Knoxville, you have to laugh at their blatant disrespect of the few traffic laws they do have here. Of course it is okay to turn left from the right lane, of course it is okay to pass up a vehicle when there is one coming straight at you, and of course it is okay that no one stops at stop signs or red lights!

6) Looking at the country side whether in a car or bus, on a boat, ATV or bike, or just walking:
What can I say, it is beautiful in Central America. So much nature crammed into the small space between North and South America!

From Flora Y Fauna

7) Horse pulled carts:
It is just so quaint. I love that in this world of technology there are people in that are not using gas to get around, they do leave noxious piles of fertilizer everywhere though. No really, the sound of the horses clippity clopping down the road outside our apartment always brings a smile to our faces.

From Horse Cart

8) People calling out what they are selling (as they walk by or as you walk by them):
Like the banana selling dudes on their horse pulled carts, they call out something, all we know it is not banana! It took us forever to figure out that the snow cone guy is saying, “Nieve!” (Snow!). We always know the water guy is here when we hear, “Agua!” And my favorite is the Tortilla girls. When I pass them, they always call out, “Tortilla Momi?” (Momi is used kind of like an old diner waitress would use, “Honey,” but of course if a man said Honey or Momi to you…it takes on a whole different meaning). Oh, if the vendors are selling a lot of stuff, they try to go through the whole list before you past (tomatos, pepinos, cebollas, zanahorias, lechuga, aguacate, sandia, pina, papas, mangos, ajo! Dime lo que quiere?)

2009-02-12 – Fruit – Tortilla Stands

9) Women wearing really tight clothes and very high heels:
This is just great! Even skinny girls are busting out of their clothes. I am not sure if it is a style thing, or because there is a lack of money to buy more clothes, but they sure are poured into their clothes! I find it that women of all sizes here are considered sexy, so why should they hide their body? I love that they seem proud of their bodies! The heels…now that is just crazy! I am talking about spiked stilettos on roads and sidewalks that could give most people broken ankles in hiking boots!

10) How many people can actually fit into a bus, or van for that matter:
Back to the buses…if there is space…it must be filled. People will stand for hours on end just to get on the bus in front of them. The ticket taker will squeeze his body through the throngs of people in the aisle to get every last cent too. We have had kids sit in our laps, mushed over so another can fit on our very small school bus seat, and have even had another person offer to hold our heavy backpack in her very old frail lap to make room for more people. There is no personal space issues here…so move on over and hand over that 20 lemps!

11) All the blaring music in stores, out of cars and on street market carts:
Sometimes too loud, but how can you dislike a country that makes music so much part of every day living! Just think how less angry New Yorkers would be if 80’s American music, Latina pop or Reggaeton was constantly playing on the streets.

12) How women wear their empire waist shirts in the middle of their boobs:

Okay, I may be getting catty now, but this is so funny looking I just can not stop starring! Not sure if the empire “waist” shirt is still popular in the States, but a lot of women wear them here. Now, as I believe (and wear myself,) the empire cutline is supposed to sit under the boob, not in the middle of them! It is amusing to see a mush line across the boob!

From Empire Waist Shirt
From Empire Waist Shirt

Since this is getting long…I will stop here so you can really visualize the above…of course with the help of the photos…but you need to picture tighter shirts. The following 12 “things” will have to wait until the next post! So sad, too bad!

Stay tuned for good children, cows, insects and cool air!
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ON THE BRINK OF…

•July 7, 2009 • 2 Comments

…War? ? More protests? People calming down like the new president wants? The ex-president being re-instated? The new president hanging tough until the presidential vote in November? Or worse yet, are we on the brink of camouflage coming back into fashion? Say it isn’t so!

Cammy

What already? I know it has only been slightly more than a week, but the longer this goes on the more the media and people make a frenzy out of it.

I was reading the blog Born in Honduras and after viewing an interesting video on the coup; I took a glance at his blogroll and had to laugh. He has links to five Expat blogs, one being mine, HenderBalz. Under the title of each blog was their most recent posting. Every other one of the blogs had written a serious piece about the coup, except for me of course. The title of my most recent blog was “Facebook is My Friend.”

Maybe I am living in a fantasy land of “I see no evil, therefore there is no evil!” But maybe, like so many Hondurans living here in La Ceiba, I am just going about my daily living. What else am I to do? Bite my really long pretty fingernails to the quick? Wear a path into the tile of our living room floor? Kick the dog? (Okay, we do not have a dog, but a really cute baby gecko is living with us and I already feel bad enough about being the cause of his taillessness…I will not kick him too.) Or how about this, blogging about it every day until I want to hang myself from those pretty long fingernails.

fingernails

I am not saying this isn’t an important subject or others should stop blogging about it, I am just saying, I am so easily distracted by shiny…uh…what was I saying? Oh, yes blogging and the coup d’etat. Of course, I want to stay informed and have information to read daily on the very slow moving progress of this Honduran situation, but I do not want to live my life around it or for it right now. I did not come to Honduras for the politics.

I am not even sure where I stand on it all now. At first it was simple, the President did something illegal, remove him from office. I understand that, and I am sure the whole “4th Box” thing was not the first thing Ole’ Mel did that was illegal, although taking him from his home in his cute little jammies and flying him to another country was a bit much. As time goes on I am starting to think more and more about it. Was his removal all planned because of the social ideas he has for the poor? Did the congress also do something illegal? And more importantly, what did his jammies really look like?

jammies

That thinking did not get me anywhere, except to the medicine cabinet for some aspirin. The fact is, I do not care which Hondo Honcho gets to play king for the next 6 months. There I said it! I do care that there is no war. I very much care about that. I came here to do something and I want to finish it. I am here for 32, no 33 (we just got a new one today) boys who live in an orphanage. I am not here to vote, to fight for politics I do not know much about and most of all; I am not here to pull on a beret and army boots to march through the jungle mush as it would completely ruin my $5.00 pedicure. If Honduras goes to war, besides the horrid death and destruction, we will have to leave and I will not be able to continue my work with the boys.

The Boys

I am sorry if this view bothers the sensibilities of others, but if I lived through 8 years of Bush, Hondurans can live with Zelaya or Micheletti for 6 more months for crying out loud, especially if it leads to a peaceful solution.

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This hopefully is my last serious piece on the coup in Honduras. Peace to all, especially to the people of the place I call
“Home for Now.”
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FACEBOOK IS MY FRIEND

•July 6, 2009 • Leave a Comment

After a weekend mostly inside, due to lack of plans and a threat of violence, I have come to admit…I heart Facebook. When I first moved to Sacramento, 1.5 hours away from my beloved San Francisco and friends, I rediscovered the TV. I soon considered the TV my new friend. Now I am far away from friends, family and even TV, so I have a new friend. Oh, Facebook, how I love thee!

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I know I am a dork, but when you live so far away from family and friends it keeps you connected in a disconnected way. I also love it as a forum to keep track of the new people we have met and to continually hear about their travels. Not to even mention all the people from my past that have come back into my life (okay, and even some from high school I do not even remember, but what the hell). A philosophy I have had throughout my life is “more the merrier.” So why not have that friend of a friend you barely knew in middle school become a new friend on Facebook? I am all for it.

I am not all for Facebook “owning” everything, anything for that matter. But I am not a paranoid person, so I just do not think about it. Unless, they lay some claim to my blog because I have a link to it on Facebook. If so I will just have to get some of my Italian family members (said as I bend my nose with a finger) break a couple of knee caps. I usually use that statement to make my friends laugh and feel better about an asshole ex-boyfriend, but I will get medieval on their asses if they break me up from my blog!

Okay, maybe I more than just “love” Facebook; maybe I am addicted to it. How many hours a day is considered addicted? Please help me…and please help me help my husband.

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As many of you know, he is addicted to one particular game in Facebook and he will easily while away hours on it. I do not see the attraction as I play said game too (for tops 15 minutes at a time maybe 2 times a day), but Jim and I are different that way. I can get bored easily, he has to learn everything, master it and then just maybe will he move on. I do not think one can “master” this game as the game makers just keep on adding on new levels and stuff. But then again, it gives me a break from the articles he reads out loud about the Coup here in Honduras.

Is there an online F.A. group? If there is…you in the group will understand the abbreviations. Please contact me with information on how to Facebook less and interact with live humans more. My sanity thanks you.
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HOW TO MAKE A CIGAR FROM SCRATCH!

•July 5, 2009 • 2 Comments

Although the big cigar trend of the 1990’s is over, maybe Obama and the Governator have brought back a bit of lust for the big ole stogie. Even though Obama is trying to make tougher laws for ciggie factories in the States, the cigar makers in Nicaragua are happy to see he has not yet quit smoking.

Cigar making is not a simple process and it is done mostly by hand. First, you have to have some of the best soil in the world for tobacco. You see, after Castro took over in Cuba, many of the cigar makers wanted out of Cuba. So they took tobacco growths and seeds from their fields and went in search of the best place to grow them anew. They found the mountainous area around Esteli, Nicaragua. And we found Nicarao Cigars.

When you have the right place, you then grow the plants, pick the leaves at the right time and dry them out properly. Drying is a science. For every kind of tobacco there is a different drying method. Some have 2 feet square piles of leaves that are bunched together by their stems in small groups. These large piles of tobacco emit an ammonia stench and the workers cover their noses and mouths. The staff shake out the individual groups and move them from one pile to another for the full drying process. There are thermometers stuck into each pile to make sure the temperature is at the perfect level. Seeing that cigar tobacco is grown in eleven different countries, there are different ways to dry the different tobacco. Another way is to lay the tobacco leaf out in small piles on screens in a room with a de-humidifier.

Tobacco Drying Process

In all honesty, the tobacco they use is not just from Nicaragua. I think they have some cigars that are just Nicaraguan tobacco, but otherwise they use tobacco from all over the world, even Connecticut. I would have figured tobacco from South Carolina, but no, CT has the shade grown tobacco good for cigars. Who knew?

After the drying process, there is the separating, de-veining and breaking of the leaves. If a leaf is still whole, the staff will tear the vein out, splitting the leaf in half, and then she will separate them into quality piles (for color, texture and what kind of shape it is in). Other women tear up the leaves that are not in good enough shape to be rolled. This tobacco goes into a cheaper type of cigar. The broken tobacco goes into a shaker to get the tiny bits and pieces out and they use that for fertilizer. Even the veins get reused as bundle ties.

Tobacco Ladies

Now, we are ready for the rolling. Again with the science, it can not be too tight or too lose and there is a supervisor that checks every single one! Most of the rollers do it by hand, but there are a couple that have a rolling machine. It reminds me of a little contraption my older brothers had in the 70’s for rolling joints. After the cigar is rolled, it goes into the cigar shaped mold. When the mold of 10 cigars is filled, they put it in a press. Everyone box has to be pressed for 10 minutes on both sides.

Cigar Rolling

By the way, the tobacco ladies are paid by the pound of tobacco they process in one day. The rollers are paid by the amount of cigars they roll. All ending in very low wages, but they do not seem unhappy with the job they have. Most people in the little country towns do not need a lot to live on, so why complain?

After the cigars pass the rolling process, they are bound up in newspaper to await the boxing process. The first step in the boxing process is the making of the boxes…each type of cigar has a different box and each country they ship to gets their own box as well.

Before they go into a box, there are several steps. You have the guy who separates them by color; each box of cigars has to have the same coloring. It is not a quality thing; it is just an esthetics thing. After they are grouped into coloring groups they are passed on to the labelers. These women put those little ring labels on ever single cigar, slips each into a clear plastic sleeve and then puts them into the boxes.

Cigar Boxing and Labeling

The boxes are then passed on to the people who seal the boxes closed and they also cellophane wrap them for freshness.

And there you have it! Now go roll your own!

Oh wait…after the cigar tour is finished, the buying begins. On the way to the gift shop, well, um, gift cabinet, we saw the pets of Nicarao Cigars, an ocelot, 3 monkeys (with the softest hands), a Toucan and a couple of Scarlet Macaws. Who knew cigars and wild beasts go together? Anyway, with the excitement of cigars all around him, Jim bought 10 cigars, 3 different kinds, and a box (yes the box was extra). The cigars were cheap; I bet they do not go for $1.00 each where ever they end up in the world.

From 2009_06_19 – Esteli


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AAAAAAAAH…ESTELI!

•July 5, 2009 • Leave a Comment

Although the trip was long and in a hot old American school bus with a lady getting sick out one of the windows now and then, Esteli was worth it.

Estili – Nic Trip – June 09

Esteli is a small mountain town that has the best fresh veggie and fruit market EVER! All the volcanoes in Nicaragua must make for some fertile land! They even have an organic market on Friday mornings in the center of town. An organic market in the middle of Central America? We bought Jamaica jelly and coffee from a women’s cooperative program, earrings made of pine needles and beads, and pupusas!

The little town also has lots of art to offer, tons of murals and a lot of them with a Sandinista theme because Esteli been a strong hold for the FSLN (Frente Sandinista de Liberation National – Sandinista National Liberation Front). Not that they are fighting with guns and Molotov cocktails anymore, but they still stand up for the rights of the people. In all of Central America I have never seen a happier group of town folk, a cleaner town, or a town where there are so many programs for its people. The FSLN must be doing something right.

The Artwork of Estili – Nic Trip – June 09

Speaking of that we had to check out a place that was once a hang out of the Sandinistas and is now a show case for Sandinista memorabilia as well as place to throw back a few beers, EL Rincon Legal. It was not that busy when we were there, but that made it easier to take in the many revolutionary posters plastered all over the walls.

Esteli was grand in a little town with a big history. In searching for more history on Esteli I found this great google book/story, Thanks to God and the Revolution, The Oral History of a Nicaraguan Family. The air was fresh and cooler than that of the low lands. And the food fresh! What more could you ask for? Well, there are Cigar factories too…one of which we toured…but that is for another blog!

After Esteli, we took a bus to Tegucigalpa (before the Coup) and spent a night there, then the next day back to La Ceiba. Home Hot Home!
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NEWS BREAK!

•June 30, 2009 • Leave a Comment

I have to take a break in my writing of our trip to Costa Rica and Nicaragua to put my two cents in about what is going on in Honduras. Before I go on these are my opinions, maybe some my husband, Jim, agrees with maybe some he does not. Also, I am not in any way or form highly knowledged in politics, not in my own country and especially not in my current home country.

Okay, so there was a coup. What is the big deal? All the Hondurans I know did not have a problem with it. Although I know many here may be angry, let them deal with it, not the world. It is funny the people (or should I say countries) that are against it are saying, the Congress and military did it illegally. First, is there a Manners Coup Book? And second, where is it in the news around the world that “Mel” was having an election, excuse me, an “opinion poll” illegally. He was asked to stop it and his response was to fire the head of the military. Two wrongs do not make a right, but in a country where mayhem is the norm (and that was NOT the first time I said that), two wrongs seems like nothing when all is said and done.

If left alone by the other countries, I am sure things would get hairy here, but in a short time the Catrachos would go on as normal. They have had a lot of civil unrest in the past, they know what to do. Civil wars, earthquakes, floods, and extreme poverty have not stopped them, why should stupid politics? But no…the U.S. has shaken its finger at Honduras, the E.U. has as well and now Chavez is stamping its foot at the new president. And the new president is stamping back. Honduras’ military already has its back up, the U.S. has a base here, and Chavez is threatening to fight…this thing is getting blown out of proportion.

What may come of it all…maybe a war, maybe Zelaya back in power, maybe some protesting, and maybe nothing at all? A lot of hot air people, blowing out their hot air make for a very steamy situation, but maybe not a lot of action. I hope not a lot of action. I am totally and whole heartedly against war. War is brought on by power mongers who just can’t along. Okay, it may be more than that, especially in other parts of the world, but there is always a struggle of power at the base of all wars. What power does Honduras have to fight over? They do not even have enough power to light the whole country for crying out loud. Let’s work on that problem before we fight over which Hondo Honcho (thanks Justin) is president.

Why is Honduras all so important now? Madonna or Angelina are not adopting kids here, the earthquake is old news, although Mel leans towards socialism there is not any communism in power, and the bananas are still being shipped out for the world to enjoy. So people of the world or I should say, stomping feet and shaking finger leaders around the world, “Tranquilo, por favor!” Let Honduras figure things out for themselves. It seems many of you all [countries / leaders around the world] have made a lot of mistakes and maybe you have learned and maybe you have not, but this is not your fight. Okay, if the need be maybe some help from the Organization of American States (OAS) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Organization_of_American_States
for a non-violent resolution. Central Americans can be rather passionate people; I have seen how they get over soccer. The OAS is not a country or a power hungry leader of a country, it is an organization made up of 35 different countries with the purpose of regional solidarity and cooperation.

With this all said, if shit does hit the fan, WE WILL GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE…or if the need be…COME GET US! I am all for power of the people, but besides being somewhat of a pacifist I do not want to be caught in the middle of this conflict. I am a hot blooded Italian who likes a good argument, but I ain’t stupid!
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LEON LEON LEON, INTELLECTUAL LIBERAL LEON

•June 30, 2009 • Leave a Comment

With that said, do we need to say, “We loved it?”

Please allow me to babble on for just a few lines because to this 40-something traveler a good hotel room makes all the difference. Via Via was sooo unexpectedly nice and so very cheap. Well, cheap for the awesome room we had. You must see the photos, but I will describe it quickly; king size bed, huge wonderful wood double doors opening up to a lush green courtyard, and a volcanic rock bath (showering was like in a waterfall)! A luxury hotel? No. The luxury suite in a regular hotel? No. A backpackers place with a really nice room for a whopping $20.00? Yes!

Leon was founded in 1524 by Francisco Fernidad de Cordoba, at the foot of a volcano. We have heard different versions of the story; volcanic eruption destroyed the city; they moved before the volcano erupted for some unknown reason. What ever the reason, they moved to the current location by 1610. More interesting about the place is that the city hired American filibuster ( aka pirate) William Walker to sack their nemesis city, Granada, located around 3 hours south during an ongoing civil war. He recruited his band of mercenaries in San Francisco, where among other things, he was editor of the San Francisco Herald, and then set sail. Then, to the Leonese surprise, he took over the whole country for a couple years before being ousted with the help of the Costa Ricans. Leon still has its colonial feel. Its conservative, southern enemy city, Granada, had to be renovated to be the “colonial” town that it is today. Reconstructed buildings everywhere in Granada have plaques documenting the destruction left in the wake of William Walker.

Leon, Nicaragua – Nic Trip – June 09

Onward and forward, Leon is a tight knit town with narrow streets and predominately one floor buildings, all with beloved courtyards. It is simple to get around which makes it easy to see even more of the Nicaraguan Catholic churches. And we did, spending more than 2 hours in one church, the large Cathedral. We spent time outside the Cathedral, in the Cathedral, and even on top of the Cathedral. We did not even have time to see the “Bishop’s Garden.” We checked out a couple of other churches too, one we liked for its odd set of alters and sculptures.

Churches of Leon – Nicaragua – June 09

Other than its history, which I will explain briefly after this, Leon is basically a colonial college town. There are lots of young people, an awesome art museum, and good places to eat, drink and hang out. And they had lots of internet cafes! Apparently, the internet is too expensive to get privately, so cybercafés are on every block and go for 75 cents per hour.

Now, let me tell you about the Revolution Tour by Harry the Dutch guy / history buff. The seven of us all jumped into Harry’s little jeep he called Ernesto, after Ernesto Che Guevara, and off we went. Our first stop was to, yes, yet another church. San Juan Bautista de Subtiava is the oldest church in Leon, built in the 1530s. The Missionaries could not get the Sutiaba Indians inside the huge dark building, so they installed one of their deities, a huge sun icon, on the ceiling to entice them inside. The Sutiaba worshipped the sun and seeing that it was shinning (with colorful paints), even during the night intrigued them enough to enter. Once they were in, all the easier to convert. The Catholics are a sneaky bunch! We then drove to El Tamarindon, a Tamarindo tree. This tree has a lot of significance for the Sutiaba people; in 1610 their Chief was hung on it by the Spanish. As a show of power, the Spanish would not let the body be taken down, so the Chief never had a proper burial according to the Sutiaban’s traditions. The Sutiaba people still own a lot of land, and they had leased some of it to the Spanish to establish the city of Leon. Well the Spanish never paid their bills and to this day the Sutiaban’s refuse to pay their taxes and other city provided services until the city pays them back for the hundreds of years of past due payments and interest.

We then went to a building that was originally built to be a fort, El Fortin De Acososco, but was used for a prison during the Somoza rule. Adjacent to El Fortin is the very large city dump. Yes, we went to another dump, but this time I can not blame Jim. After we talked about the dump problems, we went to check out El Fortin, which was just recently locked up. It is left in ruins as a memory to the horrid torture and deaths that took place there under the Somoza regime. Our tour guide, Harry, had talked to 3 local men who are survivors, 2 would not even return to El Fortin and the one that did, broke down in tears. These 3 men have false teeth because one of the torture techniques was to file teeth down to the nerves to cause constant pain. We learned about the horrific history that occurred there and the thousands that were tortured and killed. It was a very sad place, but with a beautiful view.

To finalize our tour, Harry brought us to a place to cheer us up, a cemetery. He explained quickly once we were inside the gates, why he said it was a place of cheer. People of Nicaragua celebrate the lives of the people that have passed with fiestas and on the Day of the Dead all cemeteries become party locations. It was quite the cemetery and the oldest one in town. The Sutiaba people buried their dead there even before the Spanish came.

Leon Revolution Tour – Nic Trip – June 09

Our last day was filled with history and a bit of rain afterwards, giving us time to relax before our trip to Estili the next day. Although we had good bus karma regarding timing of the buses, they were long hot old school bus rides. Estili was worth it though.


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